3 Things to Do After Your Wedding

Congratulations on your marriage! While the wedding planning is over, there’s more to be done. Our after-wedding checklist covers crucial tasks that you should consider completing after the marriage.

Send Thank You Cards

Writing thank you cards is a way to express your gratitude to all those who attended your wedding and gave you gifts or contributed in some way. Start writing your thank you cards as soon as possible after the wedding. This will help you stay organized and ensure the task is manageable.

Make a list of all the guests who attended the wedding and note down the gifts they gave you. This will help you personalize your thank you notes and ensure you get everyone.

Take the time to personalize each thank you card by mentioning the specific gift you received and how you plan to use or appreciate it. Personal touches go a long way in showing your gratitude.

Change Your Name

You may have already updated your social media profiles, such as your Facebook status and Instagram handle, to reflect your new name. To officially change your last name, you will need an original or certified copy of your marriage license with the raised seal. This document is crucial for legally changing your last name, as it serves as proof of your marriage and the name change associated with it.

Typically, the marriage license with your new last name should be sent to you automatically after your wedding. However, if you have yet to receive it or need an additional copy, you can contact the clerk’s office where you obtained your marriage license. They can assist you in tracking down the document or getting a certified copy.

Once you have your marriage license, you can start officially changing your last name on various legal documents. This includes updating your driver’s license or ID, passport, social security card, and any other important identification or legal records. You’ll need to visit the respective government agencies or offices to update these records.

Additionally, it’s important to notify various institutions and organizations about your name change. This includes informing your employer’s HR department, healthcare providers, insurance companies, and financial institutions. They will guide you through the process of updating your information and ensuring that your new name is recorded correctly.

Assess Your Will

After marriage, reviewing and updating your will is essential to ensure that your assets and wishes are accurately reflected. Consult with an experienced estate planning attorney to ensure your will is legally sound and comprehensive.

In addition to updating your will, consider practical financial arrangements. If you and your spouse are merging finances or sharing financial responsibilities, setting up a joint bank account can be a convenient solution. This account can simplify managing bills, mortgage payments, and other shared expenses. However, it’s essential to discuss this arrangement with your spouse and establish clear guidelines for its management.

Reviewing and updating beneficiary designations is another crucial step. Check the beneficiary designations on life insurance policies, retirement accounts (e.g., 401(k)s and IRAs), and other financial accounts. Ensure that your chosen beneficiaries align with your current wishes, as these assets generally pass directly to the named beneficiaries and may not be governed by your will.

Consider granting a power of attorney to your spouse or a trusted individual. This legal document allows them to make financial and legal decisions on your behalf in the event that you become incapacitated. It’s also wise to create a healthcare proxy and living will to outline your preferences for medical treatment and establish the person to make healthcare decisions if you are not able to do so yourself.

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